Sometimes it just doesn't hurt enough

It’s hard watching people who say that they want to change, but who are just not willing to do the work and aren’t being honest with themselves. Their words and their actions aren’t aligned.

Maybe it doesn’t hurt enough?

Maybe they can’t see the pleasure that they would get from making the changes?

I’ve had things on my “vent” list before – things I wasn’t happy about in my life, but wasn’t ready or willing to dedicate the time and energy into changing – until I was.

But the key was telling the truth. Especially to myself.